If you're serious about saving your marriage, you MUST Check This Out!

There are many reasons why people would rather be by themselves instead of telling their partners what’s on their mind.

It is possible that such is the way he really is. A loner, an island, a wallflower, or a shy person… take your pick. It’s just that you have other expectations, and because your expectations aren’t met, you begin to worry. Your reaction is but natural. But is it properly grounded? That is the question you should answer.

Have you tried talking to him about it?

I know it’s a much overused piece of advice, but talking about problems do help couples deal with them more efficiently. One cannot remedy what one does not know about, after all. Talking to your partner will reveal whatever it is that’s bothering him, or at the very least, the reason behind his or her seeming distance.

You are afraid of what you don’t know. With your problem paraphrased this way, the solution becomes clear, doesn’t it? To quell your fears, you must know the things that seem uncertain right now. And a good heart-to-heart talk with your husband will be able to achieve that. Three years may be a long time, but you guys have a lifetime ahead of you… a lifetime that can, and should, be as meaningful as possible.