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Indeed, honesty can be a two-edged sword. It can relieve us or it can hurt us. Nonetheless, at least she’s honest, and at least you know what she’s really thinking about, right? How to deal with it is another matter, however. There is a two-pronged approach in a situation like this.

First, you have to realize that the person, and people, she was previously with have become parts of her life. They can never be erased. Memory does not work that way. You love her for who she is and this includes her history.

But this doesn’t mean you have to suffer. Understanding is one thing, being a martyr is another.

The second thing you should do is to talk to her about it. Tell her how much it hurts you whenever she compares you with her ex. But be constructive about it. Do it in such a way that you won’t appear as if you’re restricting er honesty. As we have mentioned above, honesty is a good thing. Don’t allow it to vanish. She loves you. She should. She’s with you after all.

Once she realizes how much pain you’re suffering, she’ll take it upon herself to do the corresponding adjustments.

Also, take it as a challenge. Prove to her that you can be a better husband than her ex. Often, competition brings out the best in us. It brings us to a level we never thought we could achieve.