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If you are thinking about dating your ex-spouse again after a divorce, you need to be sure that this is what you really want.
You have to be comfortable while you are dating your ex. Make sure that you have gotten over the past hurt and anger that was in your previous relationship with him, else you will not feel at ease. If you want to make a fresh start with your ex you will need to „forgive and forget‟ what happened before to enable the relationship to move on. It’s perfectly fine to reminisce on the good times, but leave the bad times alone.
Learn from Your Mistakes
Before you can move on, learn from your mistakes and vow not to repeat them again. If you and your ex are looking to start fresh in a relationship with each other, start slowly and don’t expect a lot from each other in the beginning. Going slow is the best way to renew and rekindle a relationship as you will be able to pick up on things more, from what you have learned from the past. You will also have to be mindful of your actions that may have offended your ex in the past and try not to make those same mistakes in the new relationship. Your ex should also feel the same way about the mistakes that he made before.
Make sure that you have forgiven your ex for things they may have done to hurt or humiliate you from your previous relationship together as you cannot move forward until you are free from all of that.
Forgiveness not only helps your ex, but it helps you as well. Don’t bring up anything about the past that relates to the hurt and pain that you and your ex experienced.
Is Your Ex Interested?
There are signs to look out for that show your ex wants you back, such as constantly keeping in touch with you, calling you just to say “hello‟ and asking you if you are interested in someone else.
Other signs to look out for are these:
He says he enjoys your company.
He has no serious relationships and has mentioned that to you.
He says he likes talking to you.
He wants to be around you, whether its on a date or not.
He talks to you about serious issues and depends on you to listen.
He encourages you to keep the communication going.
He is interested in getting to know you again.
He indicates wanting to see more of you.
He states that he feels at peace when he is around you.
He doesn’t make a big deal if something goes wrong.
He talks about other girls, but shows no interest towards them.
He asks if you are interested in someone else.
He stares in your eyes for a few minutes.
Whatever you do, do not call your ex-spouse unless you are returning his call – let him initiate everything and this way you will know that he is interested in you.